What is Stress?
Well - that depends on the context the term is being used in.
The word "stress" suggests pressure exerted, tension and failure of
materials in some contexts.
So how would you describe stress? Perhaps you'd describe it as
- a normal set of physiological responses to hostile or dangerous circumstances
- being overloaded with more work that you can cope with
- being emotionally pressured or otherwise bullied
- feeling powerless in your day to day life
- .........
In general what would be thought of as a perfectly normal, even desirable set of reactions if faced with a temporary life-threatening situation can become a problem if they occur frequently or for a prolonged period causing all sorts of nasty symptoms affecting all aspects of normal day-to-day living.
Causes of stress.
There are many different causes of stress -
Any life changing event or even potentially life
changing event can cause a stress response.
children leave the nest moving home puberty exam stress family expectations
menopause assault ....... and many more
From the list above it's obvious that life is full of
stressful
events. So it is to be expected that we will all experience the
symptoms of stress at some time in life.
Then of course there are common sources of stress not
necessarily relating to family life:-
aggressive customers verbal abuse loneliness road rage feeling powerless
debt health worries ....... and many more
If you are lucky enough to have supportive family and friends then
make the most of their help.
Try to make sure you take some time for yourself each day - if you
are lonely see if there are any classes locally which will allow you to
meet people. Be kind to yourself.
Debt problems - try not to panic - if it's too much for you - make
an appointment with Citizen's Advice Bureau - take their
advice.
If you feel severely stressed then make sure you do something about
it - speak to a counsellor, your
GP or the Samaritans for help and assistance.
Some traumatic events can trigger stress symptoms many weeks
after the initial trauma. This can last many months and symptoms can
crop up at any time. This is called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
Police, and emergency services workers and those who by the nature of
their work are attending horrific accidents and may often feel
powerless to help are more likely to be affected by this disorder
although it can affect anyone. The Royal College of Psychiatrists
has some excellent guidance on PSTD. Click here
to find out more.
